There is a special kind of chaos that comes with parenting toddlers. Leaving the house is an operation. You’re managing moods, naps, weather, and snacks, and always running late. You leave the house thinking you’ve packed everything, and then life throws a curveball. A spill. A traffic jam. And in that moment, it's not your nappy bag that saves you, but what is stashed in the car.
This post is not your average bag checklist. It's about those extra things often overlooked but helpful. It’s built for real moments. Think of this as your parenting safety net. One of the best things to keep in your car is a spare comfort toy like the Riff Raff sleep toy, because meltdowns don't wait for nap time.
The Importance of Keeping Extras in the Car
Here’s a list of what’s worth keeping in your car at all times to survive the outing and make parenting less stressful. Read on to learn more about ways to prepare for an outing and what to stock up on to make your life on the go infinitely easier.
Something to Keep Them Busy While You Load or Unload
You’re trying to load groceries, unstrap a younger sibling, or take a phone call. That's when toddlers decide it's time to explore the boot or honk the horn. Keep a quiet and engaging toy just for these moments—something like a small board book, a toy steering wheel they can “drive,” or their comfort toy.
Clean-up Crisis Kit
These aren’t your usual wipes and nappies. It’s for the times when something bigger hits:
- A leak from the water bottle.
- A snack mess.
- Mud from after the park.
Keep these in your car:
- An old towel
- Wet bag or plastic bag for spoiled clothes
- Roll of paper towels
- Spare clothes
- Hand sanitiser
Unexpected Nap Supplies
Toddlers fall asleep at the most random times, five minutes into a drive or during a long wait in a line. When that happens, having these supplies on hand is a game-changer:
- A small neck pillow
- A soft blanket
- Their comfort toy
Mini “Parent Break” Kit
You might not think of yourself when packing for the car, but you should. Sometimes you, too, need a backup plan. Carry a protein bar, a lip balm, sunscreen, a phone charger, and extra water. These things will keep you steady when you’re running late or just plain tired.
Cash and Coin Stash
Sometimes card machines fail. Parking metres still exist. You may need coins for a trolley or a cold drink. Keep some loose change handy. Stick it where kids can't reach but where you won't forget.
Spare for Car Seat Disasters
Sometimes it's not just the child who needs cleaning; it's the seat too. Keep an old t-shirt or towel to line the seat in emergencies. Keep a plastic bag for mess, a set of wipes, and a change mat.
Prioritise Heat-Resistant Items
Cars get hot. Avoid anything that melts or spoils. Opt for non-perishable snacks and toys without batteries that could overheat.
Carry a Park-Ready Kit
Spontaneous detours to the playground can happen. Set up a small, always-packed park kit with:
- Foldable sun hat
- Sunscreen
- Baby-safe bug spray
- Picnic blanket
- Extra towel
Glovebox Cheat Sheet
Print and store a tiny info card with:
- Child’s medical info, like allergies
- Emergency contact numbers
- Insurance information
If there is ever an emergency and your phone dies, you will have critical information ready.
Final Thoughts
The goal of a good car stash isn't to live out of your boot but to be prepared in case of anything that is thrown at you. It also avoids turning the car around whenever something goes wrong or is missing. Packing a few smart items can make every outing feel easier. When those unpredictable toddler moments hit, having things handy can calm toddlers down while helping you stay in control of the situation. So, load up once, zip it shut, and enjoy the peace of knowing that you’re ready to face anything.
